In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a 50-year-old widow, and it's been one year since my husband passed away. My marriage was incredibly challenging, as I endured both physical and mental abuse. Now, I’m looking to heal and find someone who will truly see me for who I am—a kind, genuine person who simply wants a friendship built on trust and respect. I’m a Reiki Master, and I’ve been channeling my energy into teaching and helping others through Udemy, which has become a source of strength and income for me. More than anything, I want to connect with someone who appreciates the real me.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for someone who is kind, understanding, and patient. Someone who can see me for who I truly am and values honesty and emotional connection. I would love to find a man who is gentle, compassionate, and supportive—someone who respects my past and is willing to build something genuine in the present.
Clear communication, mutual respect, and trust would be the foundation of a successful relationship for me. It’s important that we both feel safe to be ourselves and openly share our thoughts and feelings. Understanding and accepting each other’s experiences, along with a commitment to personal growth and healing, would help us grow stronger together.
I’d love to share activities that bring peace and joy, such as meditation, nature walks, or simply quiet evenings at home. Exploring spiritual practices together, like Reiki or mindfulness, would be deeply meaningful to me. I also enjoy lighthearted things like cooking, watching movies, or taking road trips—experiences that foster connection and relaxation.
Dishonesty, lack of empathy, or controlling behavior would be deal breakers for me. After the experiences I’ve had, I need a relationship based on trust and equality, where both partners feel valued and respected. Any signs of abuse—physical, emotional, or mental—would also be something I could never tolerate again.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
North Macedonia | |
Location: |
Ohrid, Ohrid, North Macedonia | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Ohrid (Ohrid, North Macedonia) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment; I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Optimistic; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Urban (My style is fresh from the city streets) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; World |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Mystery |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Athletics; Basketball; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Long hair; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz Eastern Europe: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |