In Her Own Words
About Her
I've learned to never say never.
I'm a real person with a big heart, and yes, I care deeply about others’ feelings. Not because I don’t value my own, but because I have compassion and empathy for people.
I love the bushveld, wildlife, and big cat sanctuaries. The beach, travel, and self-care retreats are also some of my favourite escapes. I enjoy a wide variety of music, good red wine, and meaningful conversations.
Family is incredibly important to me, and I’m a true animal lover.
I’m looking for a no-nonsense kind of man. Someone who values:
Honesty: We all want it, but I believe it's those who give it who create the real connections.
Reliability: Actions speak louder than words.
Communication: Clear, open communication is key. I don’t want to guess what you’re trying to say—misunderstandings only lead to confusion.
I’m not interested in one-night stands, and I’m putting that out there loud and clear. People still take chances, even when it’s written down. I’m also not interested in being a “friend with benefits.” There's nothing real about that.
I’m not a psychologist, so if you want to talk about past relationships, that’s fine, but I believe the past is behind us. Let’s focus on the present and future.
Tell me about your goals and dreams—I’d love to hear more.
About Her Ideal Match
I believe we all want the basics from a true partner: someone who shows respect. Honesty and loyalty naturally come with that. I’m looking for a man who knows himself and is clear about what he wants in life.
A man who is loving, caring, humble, and grounded—someone who understands the importance of meaningful connection and is ready to build something real. I value sincerity, emotional depth, and mutual respect and exclusivity in a relationship.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Roodepoort (Weltevreden), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Central & Western Gauteng (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Greying; Grey; White; None (Bald); Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Chess; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Italian; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz Eastern Europe: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |